My wife’s put on weight!
Have I mentioned that she’s pregnant? With twins?
Anyone who’s experienced it will know that food plays a big part in pregnancy. She’s been eating for 3 for 7 ½ months, & to start with at least, her 2 small guests seemed to have weird taste in food.
For the first couple of months she seemed to have become a weird foodie bulimic. The growing babies seemed to need – for her – unsusal food. The cravings weren’t too weird, but they were definitely strong. Mostly unhealthy stuff, when she’s usually pretty good about eating lots of fruit & vege: McD’s, pop; & unusual (& often smelly) stuff like Piccalily, kippers, cockles; lots of baguettes & cream cheese. (Note: never cook kippers in the office microwave; it doesn’t make you very popular. I was made redundant soon after I did that & I don’t think it was a coincidence).
Luckily we’re staggering distance from a Tesco Express: I was going there 3-4 x a day (still am actually), and I’ve had to make quite a few midnight runs to McD’s or the chippy.
The worst thing was that nothing stayed down, for the 1st month or 2, along with the cravings, she had hyperemesis – severe ‘morning sickness’. She talked on the Big White Telephone so loudly that our well-meaning neighbours thought she had Swine Flu; we nearly had a big cross daubed on the door!
After several trips to the local (& excellent) 24-hour clinic, & after several false starts she finally found some medication that kept everything in check. We also had some great help from some terrific twitter people. especially @cosmicgirlie & @LuceKD.
2nd trimester she decided she needed to eat more healthily: lots more fruit & vege, less junk food. For 2 months in a row, despite 2 rapidly growing little people inside her & all the stuff that goes with them, she actually lost weight! I am often in awe of her.
In the last trimester they have exploded – a week ago they weighed in at over 10lbs – but her healthy eating has more or less continued.
I’m a bloke. (I may have mentioned that). I’m not particularly good with food: I can cook, but I lack imagination. If left to my own devices I’ll skip breakfast & just have toast for lunch. Apart from that, I’ll mostly eat what she does. If she has junk food, so do I.
Throughout the pregnancy we’ve had several health scares; my wife’s hyperemesis was distressing. Mostly as I felt that at any time I may have to drive to the hospital or off to gather food, I haven’t been drinking so much.
So in reaction to stress, I’ve been eating. I’ve always had a sweet tooth, but it seems to have gone beyond anything normal to real cravings.
Bottom line: I’ve put on quite a bit of weight!
We’re eating good healthy dinners, & fruit in between, but for me it’s a daily struggle to not grab that chocolate / those biscuits / jelly beans / whatever. And I seem to have no will-power: if it’s there, I’ll scoff it; I don’t seem to be able to eat a little at a time, & save it for later.
I’ve decided I’m sympathetically pregnant: it’s my story & I’m sticking to it!
It’s probably nature’s way of fattening me up ready for carting 2 rapidly growing little people up & down stairs, in & out of cots, buggies, baths, etc., etc. I expect the pounds will fall off! I feel exhausted just thinking about it: where’s that Mars Bar?!
title courtesy of Cartman
- Training With The Stars (whiskeyforaftershave.wordpress.com)
- The Misanthropologist: Being Pregnant Is Awesome (thegloss.com)
- What Is A Sympathetic Pregnancy? (momblognetwork.com)
- I’m Not Fat, I’m Pregnant! (chicagonow.com)