OK, now that the boring ads are over, the band has finished playing, the cheerpersons have strutted their stuff & someone has sung very badly (sorry about that), & you’re settled down again with cups of tea / beers / absinthe etc. here now is Jallie’s State of Play: the 2nd Half!
Talking. Both say “Daddy / Dadda” when happy & cry “Mummy / Mama” when in need of comforting. It’s not entirely clear if they know which of us is which. Jake says something like “ball”, by which he seems to mean “something I can throw”. Ellie seems to be able to say my name, & last night we think she may have said “good girl” – the Mummy’s first words🙂. They both have quite a range of noises which can be easily interpreted: happy, annoyed, excited, determined etc.
Result: A score draw
Jake 5, Ellie 5
Playing. Jake doesn’t mean to be but he can be a bit rough, especially as he’s quite a bit bigger, heavier & stronger than Ellie. He pulls her hair, out of curiosity, & tries to nick whatever she’s playing with. They used to like to wrestle – until Jake ended up on top, Ellie got a bit squished & got scared. He will quite happily play on his own though; when he isn’t tired or hungry he can be quite independent.
Ellie has recently been getting her own back by pulling his hair too, & has been known to very stealthily nick his toys also. She badly needs company though & will cry when left alone. More of a thrillseeker than Jake: loves being thrown in the air & carried on my shoulders.
Result: Ellie by a hair, or two
Jake 5, Ellie 6
Affection. Jake actively seeks out hugs, holding his arms up, then wrapping them around your neck while he puts his head on your shoulder. He also tries to give big wet kisses, but they’re best avoided. Think Homer Simpson in close-up going in for the kill with Marge – with extra drool…
Ellie is wonderfully affectionate too, especially when she’s tired & nuzzles into your shoulder for a sleep. She’s only just started looking for cuddles though.
Result: A big wet kiss for Jake
Jake 6, Ellie 6
Sense of Humour. Even from a very early age Jake has had a fantastic sense of humour. He can find fun in almost anything. He can actually genuinely make me laugh, in a proper adult way & not just a “oh how cute, look at what the little baby is doing” way.
Ellie has in the last month or so really come on in finding fun, & laughing at & making jokes.
Result: Almost from birth his theme song was “The Joker”: the gig is Jake’s
Jake 7, Ellie 6
Sociability. Both babies are very friendly, crawling up to other adults & being friendly. Jake usually exudes a studied curiosity, but Ellie always charms with her gorgeous smile.
Result: winning by a smile, Ellie.
Jake 7, Ellie 7
Well, it was always going to be a draw wasn’t it? You can’t have favouritism with twins!
Since I started writing this – probably just to make a monkey out of me, which they’re very good at – Ellie has started standing up with no support…