I went to my local grocery shop yesterday. I had a little money in my pocket (for a change!) and I needed food to eat; it’s just something we all do when we need to.
As I entered the shop I saw a friend going in at the same time.
Now I won’t bore you with the details, but I’m going through a hard time at the moment, a lot of which is about my being very limited in how much I spent there, & my making a beeline for the bargains section. Among other things.
It’s summer here in Wales, allegedly. We’ve had some nice days, but this wasn’t one of them. It was raining heavily, cold and windy.
In short, I wasn’t in the best of moods.
I greeted my friend when I caught up with her: “Hi Liz”; she replied in kind.
In my very British way, as I often do, I then said ironically, “Nice day isn’t it?”.
Because as far as I was concerned it wasn’t. But, you know, I was muddling on through anyway, as you do.
Her response? She turned around, with a big smile on her face, and said, “Yes, it is!”.
She seemed completely genuine.
It wasn’t! But to her it was. I was taken aback!
That changed my mindset.
Yes, the weather was terrible.Yes, this, that and the other. And I know my friend has problems of her own, as do we all. Yet it was still “a nice day”!
It was a nice day because she had decided it was. So it was!
Yes, I was broke. Yes, the weather was awful. Yes, this, that, the other, and everything else. But I could still decide it was “a nice day!”.
Yes, I have problems, at the moment it seems too many. But compared to most of the world’s people I’m lucky. I’m not starving. I have a roof over my head. I don’t live in fear of being bombed. I have friends. And I have my music.
Today is a good day! I’m gonna make it that way.